I find life completely open, I could say unlimited opportunities to mingle with different personalities. I usually encounter 10s (tens) of people with humorous psyche; everyday. Alas, its my character, it is what I'm that I prefer keeping myself reserved but its nothing I intend to do intentionally, it's just my conscious as I have the tendency of not trusting people at one glance, sometimes never.
How would you possibly describe a damaged moment of your life? How did you feel; remorseful right? I guess so.
It's not easy to recover instantaneously after getting damaged. It is a timely process, to some people it takes years sometimes a lifetime.